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Avoid the Most Common Swinger Dating Mistake

There are three obvious options for closing and moving on to enjoy recreational sex:

  1. Simply proposing an immediate commencement of sex here and now
  2. Proposing to meet somewhere else at some other time to have sex.
  3. Agreeing a date to go to a swinger club or private sex party together.

Which one of these closes to go for will be in part dictated by the circumstances of the meeting. Foe example, the have sex here and now option is obviously not going to be available in most public meeting places. On the other hand, for a meeting taking place at a sex party, closing in this direct way is usually the best option.

Closing Sex Party Chat

Although you might think it is much easier to avoid the forgetting to close mistake when the chatting-up swingers at a sex party, it still frequently happens. Over many years of attending swinger parties I have witnessed countless examples of people letting golden opportunities to enjoy threesomes and foursomes slip by simply because they failed to close conversations.

Let me describe one very typical example of this situation. Two couples engage themselves in highly flirtatious conversation. Both females are dressed (or undressed) to thrill. Both couples, (male and female partners alike) make it absolutely clear they are genuinely enthusiastic about enjoying their first ever group sex experience. They are keen to do a full swap and the sexual chemistry seems right from all four perspectives. The simple thing would be to close the conversation with a straightforward proposal like, “Are we ready to try the playroom out then?” But instead of this happening, all four get sucked into extending the conversation until it begins to die and degenerate into something that is no longer exciting or flirtatious. At this point someone makes an excuse to move on and the chance of swinging has gone for good.

The majority of couples attending swinger parties are only interested in partner swapping sex. This fact makes it very likely that a single male who fails to close the conversation with a couple who enjoy MFM threesomes, could easily mean missing out on the only opportunity that the party offers. This being the case, the guy has not only blown his chances of swinging with the couple he has been chatting up but he has effectively blown the whole party and might just as well go home!